You can be right, or you can be happy.
We fight the wrong enemy.
We are driven by wrong motives.
We use the wrong tactics.
Healthy couples fight for resolution. Unhealthy couples fight to win.
1. Shut up and listen.
Learn to respond not react.
Repeat what you heard them say.
2. Guard your words.
Before you say it: fast forward.
3. Manage anger with righteousness
I walk into every potential conflict assuming I'm at fault. I always walk out feeling like a winner.